How to Know a Person (2023) urges us to look beyond surface traits and truly understand people - their stories, passions, and motivations. David Brooks argues that our failure to genuinely connect with others has fueled issues like political polarization, mental health struggles, and widespread loneliness. While recognizing that truly "seeing" someone is difficult, he emphasizes its necessity for building healthy relationships. With effort and dedication, we can revive the lost art of deep connection, fostering empathy, bridging divides, and strengthening our moral character.
David Brooks is a commentator, author, and New York Times op-ed columnist. He frequently appears on PBS NewsHour, NPR's All Things Considered, and NBC's Meet the Press. A Yale University lecturer and member of the American Academy of Arts and Sciences, Brooks is known for bestselling books like The Social Animal and Bobos in Paradise, which explore sociology, culture, and human behavior.